Dressing Up for Your Man
Your better half and you are still in love with each other, but after so many years together, much of the initial passion and enthusiasm may have cooled off.
To rekindle the romance, you may need to create some new excitement in your relationship. And it can be something as simple as dressing up for him!
Take a Visual Cue
Men are visual creatures – they are much more easily stimulated by what they see. This explains why his attention is so easily broken by a hot young girl walking by, or even perhaps why he was attracted to you in the first place – he liked what he saw!
We all dolled ourselves up for that crucial first date, but after a few years of coupledom, we tend to be less diligent and slowly forget that it’s still important to look good for our partner.
Don’t let your romance and sex life fizzle out because of complacency. It’s time to revamp your wardrobe and add some sexiness into your style! Rekindle that fire and romance in your life between the two of you!
Find the Right Clothes
Looking sexy does not mean you have to look inappropriate or tarty. Here are some tips on how to titillate his senses while still looking classy and elegant.
Subtle sexiness
Wear clothes that flatter your best features like cleavage and legs, and accentuate your curves. Exude sexiness with a halter neck top to show off your nice shoulders or wear a dress with a low scoop back to highlight your slender back.
However, never reveal too much. If you’re wearing a top with plunging neckline, pair it with a modest long skirt or skinny jeans, and leave a little to your man’s imagination. Maintain some mystery and make him anticipate!
The art of subtle sexiness also lies in creating an illusion of bareness while keeping yourself covered. You can try wearing a low cut camisole to show off your cleavage and top it off with a sheer shirt.
The little black dress
Never underestimate the power of the little black dress . This versatile dress is great for showing off your legs while giving you a touch of class. Go for one with a high neck line that will bring you from work to play, or try on a baby-doll and look sweet and gamine.
Walk tall
Be it a pair of stilettos or wedges, high heels works wonders to elongate your body and make you look poised and graceful. So slip on your killer heels and stop him in his tracks!
Slumber sizzle
Once in a while, turn the heat up a notch in your bedroom with delicate lingerie. Ditch your frumpy cotton pyjamas for an elegant satin and lace chemise that will bring out your feminine and seductive side.
Personal Grooming and Hygiene
Beyond just clothes, looking sexy also involves subtle touches like personal grooming and hygiene.
- Once in a while, freshen up your look with a new hairstyle. Get manicures and pedicures, and highlight your pretty bare feet with strappy heels. Wax your legs and feel sexy about your smooth legs.
- He might not mind your morning breath anymore after all this years, but it is still nice for you to keep your teeth clean and your breath smelling good throughout the day.
- Stimulate his senses with a sexy scent. Apply perfume on your pulse points, or spray it in the air and walk through the cloud of perfume if you prefer the scent to be less overpowering.
- On some weekends, take a break from your green face masks and greasy night creams. These things can be a killjoy sometimes when you want to get in the mood for love.
Feel Sexy
Don’t be shy , and never ever feel inadequate about your body shape. In reality, most women look more attractive than they think they are . Men are not even that concerned that your body falls short of the Playboy centrespread model anyway. They are just glad to have you!
In fact, your confidence in your sensuality can also translate into sexiness for him. Sexiness is not just skin deep – it takes a little attitude on your part to bring up the heat too!
Intimacy between couples isn’t just about physical contact, so don’t forget to connect deeper spiritually. Share a hug and a laugh together, relax and talk about anything over a cuppa, or tell each other something you never told anyone else.
All these may be little touches. But put them together , and you and your man both will be sure to notice the difference. So be bold and bring out your sexy self!
