Bring The Zest Back to Your Sex Life
Communication is the key to ironing out the kinks in any relationship. The same holds true for sexual relationships. Commitment and involvement of both partners lay the foundation for a strong, lasting and mutually satisfying sexual relationship. Having more positive feedback than negative criticism between both parties is also favourable.
Mutual Commitment
Too many women are guilty of letting the man do all the hard work; after all it is easy to just lie back at the end of a long multi-tasking day. No wonder, the top complaint of most guys about women is that they tend to lie like a cold fish.
Sex is a highly interactive activity, which requires the wholehearted participation of both parties. A passive sexual partner can be a total turn off. Put in extra effort and enthusiasm during your next sexual romp and the results will be well worth it.
Two Way Communication
If you want to have a sexually fulfilling relationship, shed your inhibitions and coyness before you get into bed. Like in everything else, an open approach is the best way to go.
Tell your partner what makes you feel good, show him what gives you pleasure and what hurts. Voice your feelings and show appreciation when you feel good. At the same time seek to give pleasure, ask him what stirs his senses and let his responses guide you. Keep the two way communication channels open and bid farewell to those days when you had to resort to faking an orgasm.
Engage His Visual Senses
Presentation is very important; after all it is the icing on the cake that lures us to taste it. Women are well aware of the prowess of visual stimulation and spend hours decking up for their first date, but once the conquest has been made and real life stress has set in, the enthusiasm can diminish.
Recharge your sex life by rejuvenation your senses - candlelight, romantic music, seductive attire and musky perfumes can all be used to create the ambience. Every once in a while steer clear of practical white cotton undies and greasy night creams - you have to agree, that they can be mood killers. Bring out the sensuous lingerie and have a rollicking time.
Do Those Exercises
Regular workouts help to keep you at the peak of your physical form. If you are too busy to visit the gym, take the stairs on your way home. Or schedule a couple of extra minutes of vaginal exercise into your regular exercise schedule and reap in the benefits of an invigorated sexual life.
Try this simple exercise - stop urinating in mid-stream a few times per session. Doing this regularly will strengthen the muscles that supports your vagina. During intercourse, clench your vaginal muscles around your partner's penis to give him a mind-blowing orgasm.
These are just a few tips to revamp your sex life to enable you and your partner to reach dizzying heights of sexual gratification.
